Are sex toys really only for girls when in a relationship?!?!

Before I dive into this topic please read - DISCLAIMER: If you feel what I say is out of context...do not read past this point.  I speak my mind when and how I want.  I feel I'm nothing but informative on an experiential level and just like to give my input on things that are normally discussed on a day to day basis.  I say what most are too afraid to talk about, where again if we are all adults here...it should be simple! TRUE ARIES BLOG

Now,  I'm not saying dildos in a mans booty hole is the movement...however, there are some cute lil gadgets  that a guy could use at the same time while pleasing his lady. I know some guys are like....FUCK NO!  But seriously...what would be the reason not to just try it out?  It couldn't possibly make you gay if you enjoy some extra sensation in areas that are as sensitive as your head....again, i'm not talking fun stuff for that manhole...to each his/her own if you suggest it...but I'm saying there are rings to go around the shaft etc.  I'll provide just a couple examples...and who knows maybe one of these days i'll have my own lil pleasure party for those that may want to discreetly buying some goodies =) 

For the right kinda guy! 

Now this blue toy is what I am talking about  for men.  Give it a try and see what you think. The round ring goes around the base of the shaft. there's a lil button that starts a vibration.  No reason to be nervous or shy about it...I've always believed that as open as you can be in the bedroom it will manifest into a great relationship with your partner.  Think about it...if you have the worst bedroom activity going on from head game to riding pony's don't you think it's time to change up a bit? Add some excitement? For Real...the less pleasure you get out of your love...the more cranky... irritable and not in the mood they will become.  Trust me I KNOW!!

Sexual frustration is thee worse..however if you are bored in the bedroom that could be just as bad! Being more open-minded helps bring out new opportunities and will have your communication level at an all time high!

Have some control 

Now these last 2 are more for the control of things. Either have the vibes of music reach both the male or female sensitive areas on the same beat. And then there's the remote control ring, Who wouldn't want to control their mans' sexual pleasure while at dinner, a movie or even in the car if you don't feel like using your head?!?!  There are some for women remote controlled toys as well.    I know Kandi Burroughs' ( of Housewives of Atlanta & Escape) website http://bedroomkandi.ohmibod.com/  has quite a bit of interesting toys to play with! I say go for it....if it's sex that you want why not add some extra pleasure!  Again men, don't be so hesitant to try...or at least give some extra teasing to ya lady with one of her own!!

Music anyone?

women's treasures 

Marriage covered with SEX

In my opinion, there are 2 things that are of most concern in our generational times other than MONEY and that is MARRIAGE and SEX.... If you look at our youth today or even most people in their late 20's early 30's, Marriage is not as much a priority as it was back let's say  in the 1950's or even 60's.  To me I feel SEX has suffocated the thought of even getting married nowadays.  Sex gives the idea of control over anything possible....Hey the more sex you could have with more random people, what's the use of getting married right??!!?

I can honestly say that people have been brain washed as what they see as being the most probable way of thinking that sex is better than love.  I mean from experience, wouldn't you rather have sex with the one you could spend the rest of your life with???

Ok that seems like another fairy tale question I'm sure, but I'm saying rather than get so tied up and hooked into what the WORLD perceives as the RIGHT THING try finding what is right for YOU.  Often times, the female community will get so eluded into the entertainment world that they may never know what real love feels like, hence that puts a HAULT for them to ever consider jumping the broom because single life is the way to go.  Watching a show and expecting your life to be so identical to their reality and not your own really stops these women from ever being truly happy with even themselves.  As these REALITY women contiguously flaunt how much sex they can have enjoying the single life...what about morals set for a better future???  In the same breath....most men look at marriage as a financial BINDING as opposed to the FINANCIAL success one could acquire.  They look at the NO MORE LATE NIGHT OUTTINGS with the guys as a set back but don't realize there are beautiful women that would allow them to still BE A MAN...Roles are changing everyday I get that...but let's not exclude what a good thing could really feel like. Alright, ....enough with all the preaching...but seriously...Marriage can be just as much exhilarating and the sex could be even better but again I'm only speaking from my point of view.