Persia Black

written by Persia Black for Jahyummy.com (Jahyummyradio.com) blogs.  Check out the Website!!!


Ahem.....allow me to re-introduce myself.....


Behind this Aries female is just a regular bad ass that goes against the grain.  I like to call myself Persia Black, my alter ego if you will. (( *PERSIA= an acronym for Political, Economic, Religious, Social, Intellectual, and Artistic **BLACK= describes what I am and the beauty I posses)) I finally have the opportunity to put my thoughts out there on just what I randomly rant about. I'm always talking about Love, Life, Sex, Marriage, Kids, Religion, Work, Sports, School, Fashion, Music or anything that I personally can relate to.  I'm like the voice that says do it, when you think it could go wrong. And I'm the voice that will say what others may only think or wish they could say. I'm blunt, open-minded and got a lot to talk about so listen up!


I am introduced to so many things on a day to day basis whether I agree, disagree or just happen too overhear conversations that intrigue me (not being nosy)   I mean, technically we all are entitled to our own opinions, which is what I am here to do in this blog....EXPRESS MY OPINION and maybe just maybe add in a few other opinions if I can get some interviews going.  Hey why not, it's all fun and games and for shits and giggles...everyone should have a good debate going from time to time.  I'm not one to prove people wrong, I speak MY TRUTH and what I know, if it's something that requires a bit more research believe me...I'm on it.


This Blog is merely just a way for me again, to get my thoughts out there...I mean I LOVE getting good and bad responses so comments are welcome.


DISCLAIMER:  I curse,get angry, overly happy, goofy, into something one minute and change my mind the next...oh and even horny. Hey I'm an ARIES so ..KEEP UP WITH ME IF YOU CAN....Persian Thoughts is just the start of some freshness in this disgruntled ass world.

Open relationships may not be for you...but it's what's hot for Mr & Mrs SMITH

This Blog was written by Persia Black for (Jahyummy.com) Jahyummyradio.com  Check out the websites!!

Take it how you want, but people nowadays are either in a relationship and cheat or just indulge in dating plenty of men/women to stay afloat in this day in age. It never mattered as much to the public eye what went on behind closed doors of these not so shy celebrities but they are sure to roll a few eyes and cringe a few noses.  Although this next topic I'm going to talk about is old news, it's still rants and raves going on about them.

One of the most sexiest couples of all time hands down in my opinion- Mr. Will & Jada Pinkett-Smith!! Let's face it, back when "Summertime" was a hit and "Inkwell" had summer love sizzling we were sure to see this couple gaining more publicity then ever imagined.




To take you through the most controversial marriage in our Black American community,  I'm not going to sit and stroke the ego of those that feel this is the worst act of all man kind, however I will surely mention that they are no rookies when it comes to love.  Jada Pinkett-Smith played plenty of roles in the TV and Movie industry but the main role that stands clear is that of a Mother as well as a wife to the handsome Will Smith star of the TV show Fresh Prince of Bel Air and numerous movies to follow.  He also produced as well as created plenty of music set back in the archives.

 They are very family oriented which proves everyday with the accomplishments of the sister/brother duo in their roles as well as musical talents that are possessed.













Now back to what keeps this marriage juicy and hot, Jada was questioned what it is that makes of a successful marriage: 

"The most important aspect of our relationship is that we continue to grow together—you have to be willing to take journeys with your partner. And even our relationship has gone through bad times. But if you can survive them, you'll have an even deeper connection. What's more important, chemistry or friendship? You have to have both, without allowing one to get stronger than the other. It's all about keeping that balance."
Source: YourTango. "Jada Pinkett Smith on Love and Marriage."

This is so true and I can relate to this statement.  It also comes from building from a foundation of nothing and turning it into EVERYTHING.

Will then answers on open marriage:
"Our perspective is, you don't avoid what's natural. You're going to be attracted to people. In our marriage vows, we didn't say 'forsaking all others.' The vow that we made was that you will never hear that I did something after the fact. If it came down to it, then one spouse can say to the other, 'Look, I need to have sex with somebody. I'm not going to if you don't approve of it - but please approve of it.'"
Source: Richard Simpson. "Will: Ask your wife before you cheat on her." DailyMail.co.uk. 2/08/2005.

& Jada: We always have people that we’re attracted to that we talk about. That don’t stop just because your married. Somebody’s always gonna catch your eye. That’s real. Somebody’s gonna always be prettier than me, somebody’s always gonna be more in awe of him than me, and he gonna be like (in Will’s voice) ‘yo she really like me’ (laughter) but as far as somebody being right for us… is there somebody right for a nice night? Maybe. But somebody that can sustain our life and sustain what we’ve built together, absolutely not!”



That's as real as it gets, and coming from such a sexy individual as Jada,  my Persia's opinion it's true.  We may not all agree or like it, but when in a relationship, we can't just ASSUME that who we are with won't have some kind of feelings about someone they may have came across just by walking across the street.  Will said it, it's natural.  So the only question still lingering is who is willing to take that step and,,,,,,

open Pandora's box?  We can't knock what may work for others, and I too say be open with as much as you can to keep things spontaneous.  It may not be the main answer as to how to keep your man/woman but it sure can keep you wanting more.

Whatever it is, this highly sex driven couple makes it work for them and has what it takes to make love last.  Again, many do not agree while others want in on what could be the next hottest trend.

DISCLAIMER to everyone that may have a mind so closed they can't see past what may actually work for them, remember, people won't know what you do not tell.  So, if having sex or getting intimate with someone other than your mate or including them in your swinging life is in your bag...go for it!! It's your bedroom, not theirs.  I'm not going to sugar coat a thing, I mean, who are we to judge what you are doing or not....because 9/10 those that disagree are wishing they were in your same shoes. 

*shrugs*